Formalwear Etiquette

Traditional Formalwear


If you like to keep with tradition and look great, below is a guide to help you pick the proper attire for your wedding. These styles are timeless and are sure to make a lasting impression.
 


Ultra-Formal Evening
The Black Full Dress Tails is the ultimate in formal fashion for wedding after 4:00 pm. This traditional look features a white pique wing tip shirt, white pique vest and bow tie. Gloves are optional and black plain toe patent look shoes are a must.


Formal Evening

The Traditional Black Tuxedo can be used year around for weddings after 4:00 pm. Different colors of accessories' are often used to complement the bride and bridesmaids attire. All men should wear the same style but the accessory color may vary for the groom.
Also appropriate is  the White Dinner Jacket but should only be used in warmer seasons or climates.


Ultra-Formal Daytime
The Grey or Black Cutaway is the ultimate in formal attire for weddings before 4:00 pm. There are many variations of ascot ties and either hickory stripe pants or grey sandstone are normally worn. Gloves are optional and black plain toe patent look shoes are a must.


Formal Daytime

The Grey or Black Stroller is the proper traditional attire for weddings before 4:00 pm. There are many variations of neck ties and either hickory stripe pants are normally worn.

Contemporary Formalwear


The contemporary look allows you more flexibility in style and color. There are few limitations for contemporary weddings.  Below are some guidelines that may help you in planning your tuxedo style.


Ultra-Formal Contemporary Evening
Fashion Tails in Black, White, Ivory or Grey are the look of the contemporary ultra-formal wedding. This look is usually worn after 4:00 pm but unlike the traditional tails time is not as strict. Color vest and ties are a great way to achieve any look you desire.


Formal Contemporary

This is the most popular category in men's formalwear. There are so may options available for the contemporary formal wedding the only limits are your imagination. From high fashion styles to more conservative two and three button  tuxedos. Color vest and ties are a great way to achieve any look you desire use fashion or traditional formal shoes to look your best.

 

Semi-Formal Daytime

If your wedding doesn't quite call for the look of a tuxedo but you want to have a uniform look, the formal suit may be just what you are looking for. There are a huge selection of ties that can be used to match any occasion. 
 

Need more help?
Stop in to one of our store locations or visit one of our many authorized dealers. We will be glad to discuss your wedding and help you choose the proper attire that fits your style and personality.

For the nearest Thomas & Sons or Thomas & Sons Authorized Partner please call: 1-800-845-7088 and we will be happy to assist you in locating a dealer.

 

To see our complete formalwear line visit our Styles On-Line Page.

Commonly Asked Questions

Who usually selects the tuxedos for the wedding party?

Usually the bride and groom make the selection. The tuxedo style you choose will depend on your personal taste, the time of year, time of day and the formality of your wedding.


How do I find my best look?

If your personal style is traditional, you’ll be most comfortable in a classic tuxedo or tailcoat. These are always superb choices. Style conscious dressers may prefer the excitement of updated fabrics, designs and accessories. Coordinate your own look, choose from over 70 styles. Be sure to look at a variety of styles and ask your sales person for assistance.


When should we finalize our tuxedo selection?

It is never too early or too late to register your wedding. It is recommended, however, that the bride and groom make their final decision and register at least three months before; this will allow the attendants time to have measurements taken at least three weeks in advance.


What are the newest trends in tuxedos?

While black endures as the groom’s No. 1 choice, colors are gaining popularity. White and ivory are great choices for spring and summer weddings. Famous designers such as Ralph Lauren, Perry Ellis, Oscar De La Renta and Christian Dior have taken formal fashions to a new height, with exciting styles and accessories. Add a fancy vest, button cover or euro-band tie to personalize your look.
 		 How can I get out-of-town attendants measured?

Out of town attendants can be measured at any formal wear supplier in their area. This is a tuxedo industry courtesy and there is usually no charge for this service. The measurements are then mailed, emailed or phoned into the store providing the tuxedos.


Should we encourage other family members to go formal?

Yes. All too often fathers are left out. Consider the pictures and the memories; encourage the whole family to be involved. This is a very special time for grandfathers and uncles too. Invite them to dress for this special occasion. Whenever you review your wedding album or video, you’ll be glad you did.


Do I need to rent shoes?

Etiquette dictates that a shiny plain toe shoe be worn with men’s formal wear. Formal shoes complete the look of a tuxedo and add consistency to the wedding party.


How can we make the groom stand out from the ushers?

There are many ways to emphasize the groom. For example, he can wear tails while the other men wear tuxedo coats, or the groom may choose a different color or double breasted. The groom can wear accessories (cummerbund or vest and tie) to match the brides gown, while the attendants wear colored accessories that match the bridesmaids’ dresses. Ask to see our great new vest collections.